Why we built this
Two years ago, I almost lost my mom — because no one knew she needed help.
She had been severely ill for over a week. Barely able to move. She didn't call anyone because she didn't want to be a bother. By the time I found her, she was in stage-4 kidney failure fighting three concurrent infections. Three weeks in the hospital isolation ward. The road back was long and hard, and never complete.
If we'd had a simple system — a daily I'm okay — I would have known to check on her sooner. The damage could have been so much less severe.
Not Dead Yet! is the system we should have had then.